This is finally a public blog, so some orientation is in order.
I am Naga di Kandang (going by “Naga”), which translates from the Indonesian approximately as “Dragon in the cage.” I am a 40-something male switch, in the BDSM sense. I mostly prefer to bottom to physical play, especially bondage, but occasionally top. I have taken both dominant and submissive relationship roles.
I am the owned and collared pet of Jalan Jalan (colloquially something like “a jaunt”), a 30-something female dominant switch, and my fiancee’ and keyholder. She does most of the topping in our play, but at times orders me to top her, sometimes to specifications. This works well for us.
Ours is an open relationship, but we always prioritize each other, and are looking forward to building our lives together.