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A tentative new rule (NSFW text)

03 Jul

Jalan introduced a new rule last night. As she often does, she said this would be a trial week for it, to see if it serves its purpose or needs adjustment.

Any time you are in our bed, you will be in the play collar with the leash attached.

I asked a couple of clarifying questions, such as about resting when she’s not home (I do not like removing or placing a collar on myself, even if permitted and able). But the essence is to make “impromptu” activity easier. She knows that vanilla sex is, as she put it, “at best, pleasant” for me, but she doesn’t always want to take the interruption to get out restraints when she’s in the mood. With this, there is always a degree of restraint, a handle, and a component of kink to help my mood when she wants something spontaneous.

Today, I wanted to come back to bed after I’d been up for awhile, so knelt beside her side and asked. That seemed to work for both of us :).

 

 
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Posted by on July 3, 2012 in D/s, Daily Life

 

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