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FetLife profile update (NSFW text)

05 Aug

I updated my profile on Fet yesterday:

He is mine, to his core.”

Jalan Jalan — my wife, owner, dominant, top, keyholder, and life partner — posted this in a journal entry and it has stayed with me. I am hers, to my core. And she is mine, though the manifestation is, as I am wont to say, asymmetric. I am her friend, her lover, her pet, her submissive, her mate, her husband, and, above all, her partner in every way, and I could not be happier about it.

Given those roles I partake in with Jalan, I have nonetheless retained the label “switch” on this profile. My best, current assessment of myself is that I enjoy being dominant, and I need to be submissive. Similarly, I enjoy topping occasionally, but prefer and have a need for bottoming, particularly in restrictive bondage. “Claustrophile” is not too strong a term — bondage is more for me than a sexual turn-on (though it is that, in spades) but also a means of being soothed, calmed, and comforted.

And so “switch” is my label. My identification is, simply, as hers. Jalan is my match, in D/s and life. I routinely bottom to her and occasionally top her (at her initiative, and frequently according to her scripting). But I am always hers.

That said, Jalan encourages a “modicum of promiscuous behavior,” and I am free to meet other play and/or sexual partners, with certain guidelines that I will share with those who need to know. Before that point, though, I am always on the lookout for friends, foremost, starting with meeting people who enjoy a good conversation. Beyond that, friends who might enjoy tying me down and doing lovely and terrible things to me are special treasures. If it makes a difference, I travel to North Carolina regularly.

I am hers.

 
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Posted by on August 5, 2012 in General / Overhead

 

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